Wednesday, February 29, 2012

46. Moslim women speak out 2

Muslim Women Speak Out
A few weeks ago a debate raged within the columns of the Northants
Evening Telegraph and on their web-site. The issue? Should the burka (niqab) be
banned. This followed Kettering MP Philip Hollobone describing the burka as a
"paper bag" and subsequently calling for it to be banned (the
burka that is, not the paper bag!).
This follows similar debates that are taking place around the UK and
internationally (especially in France and Turkey). Often a unique feature of
these debates is that they are overwhelming dominated by "Christian"
or "secular" men wanting to control what a (small minority) of
Muslim women should or shouldn't wear. In France the debate goes even
wider than the burka, with the Hijab (or headscarf) being banned in certain
public places and in education. What is, however, often missing from the debate
is what Muslim women themselves feel on this issue (whether or not they wear
the burka, hijab or other forms of clothing).
Recently, however, the views of some Muslim women in Kettering has been sent to
me and, with their consent, I have agreed to publish it in full. It takes the
form of a letter that was sent to Philip Hollobone. I make no further comment
myself.
Dear Mr Hollobone
RE: Your views on Women wearing the ‘Burka’ that was reported in the press
United Kingdom prides itself on Freedom of speech and expression. This is the
foundation for our politics and our British Lifestyle and as British
Citizens we are proud to say that we have the platform to express how we feel
and have the freedom to express our individuality.
Hence, everyone has an individual right to choose what they wear and no one has
the right to impose their personal views and make judgements on other people’s
character, personality and behaviour based on their dress. Furthermore, we live
in a society where fashion is an expression of one’s inner personality.
The wearing of the ‘burkah’ or veil (by the way the correct term is niqab) in
public by a practicing Muslim woman is an individual choice, its an expression
of how she wishes to dress and she is fulfilling the requirements of her faith,
just as it is for Nuns who wish to adopt a way of life of covering of their
head. When you see a Nun, she portrays a positive image in most people: you
think of purity, someone friendly, humble, caring and a religious person
serving God.
Furthermore, from observation, a Nun’s dress has an impact in the way most men
would behave toward her. She is treated with respect. Also, no one would
question that Nuns cannot communicate or interact with society due to the way
they dress. Similarly, a Muslim woman who decides to cover her face is doing so
due to her individual and religious choice and to make judgements about her
character and about her relationships with others because of the way she
dresses is insulting and disrespectful to her.
Your comments about Muslim women wearing the ‘Burka’, portrays a negative image
in the media and it is validating racial and religious intolerance in our
society. Such viewpoints incite hatred; lead to victimisation and it gives
support to the extremists living in our communities. As a public official, an
upstanding member of the community, surely it is your responsibility to promote
harmony, tolerance, good community relationships and portray a positive image
of all faiths in our community and not cast/ endorse such stereotypical views.
Indeed, your comment could be interpreted as a breach of the Standards Board of
England Code.
By wearing the veil or Burka, you have questioned the competency of these women
interacting with society and you have made judgements without any evidence
about them. If according to you this woman finds our society so objectionable,
then you would have not seen her in public, at a social, friendly, family
environment.
A woman should not be judged by what she wears. Some people may decide to cover
up and others may decide to wear as little as possible. Some people may admire
some women who wear sexually provocative clothes and some might find such dress
shameful or offensive and make judgements about her intentions and her
character. Intelligence, personality and competency cannot be determined by
clothes. We live in the 21st century in a country where we have freedom to
express ourselves, and women now have the right to vote, a right we were once
denied in Britain.
If you think that the Burka restricts a woman’s competency to function in
society then by your stereotype she should have been home locked away and never
be seen. Your level of intolerance towards what women wear in public does not
seem to be any different from oppressive male dominated regimes and countries
we accuse of having little or no regard for the rights and freedom of women.
The views you have expressed in the media, demonstrates that you have little
understanding of our religion and dress. Education is liberating as is the way
one dresses. The Muslim women in Kettering are a mix of working women and
housewives who positively contribute to society. We have never found that our
dress code has restricted us in anyway. We take part in activities in the
community and have good relationship with all irrespectively of their race,
ethnicity, culture, faith or intelligence.
You have an Islamic Community Centre in Kettering and it is there not only for
its congregation but also for anyone who is interested to educate themselves
about the religion of Islam. If you wish to discuss this matter of the Burka
further or wish to learn more about women or men’s dress or women’s rights or
on any other issues, then please feel free to arrange a meeting where we would
be happy to have a dialogue with you.
Kind Regards
On behalf of
Women of Kettering Muslim Association
Kettering Ethnic Minority Women’s
Association
Northamptonshire Rights and Equality Council

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